So many experiences in 30 years
I got a work-related page, so I missed my dinner with Canine, TC, Lotus, Shogun, Ronin, and HotFudge. I hope I don't get any more this Labor Day weekend.
Since I'm on the computer, I feel a need to recap my thoughts on the last two weeks. Hearing the passing of a good friend's younger sister two weeks ago really gripped my heart. Although I did not know her well personally, I knew of her through friends. Now, after going to her viewing yesterday and her funeral today, I know more about her and am saddened that I did not know her better. From emails, thoughts, and eulogies that were shared I am amazed at what she has accomplished in just 30 years. She was so outgoing. I envy that. I find myself being so calculated and analytical that I feel boring. Predictable. As my friend mentioned in his eulogy to his sister, one way to remember the way his sister led her life would be to do something out of the ordinary. I'll see if I can do that.
My friend collected pictures, excerpts from his sisters journals, and thoughts shared from people in his sister's life. It is a beautiful collection and really shows how much his sister loved life and wanted to experience it. The outpouring of affection from those attending the viewing and funeral was really touching. My condolences and sympathy go out to my friend and his family during this difficult time. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. It's sad that she is no longer with us, but judging by the lives she changed, I know her spirit will live on.
Since I'm on the computer, I feel a need to recap my thoughts on the last two weeks. Hearing the passing of a good friend's younger sister two weeks ago really gripped my heart. Although I did not know her well personally, I knew of her through friends. Now, after going to her viewing yesterday and her funeral today, I know more about her and am saddened that I did not know her better. From emails, thoughts, and eulogies that were shared I am amazed at what she has accomplished in just 30 years. She was so outgoing. I envy that. I find myself being so calculated and analytical that I feel boring. Predictable. As my friend mentioned in his eulogy to his sister, one way to remember the way his sister led her life would be to do something out of the ordinary. I'll see if I can do that.
My friend collected pictures, excerpts from his sisters journals, and thoughts shared from people in his sister's life. It is a beautiful collection and really shows how much his sister loved life and wanted to experience it. The outpouring of affection from those attending the viewing and funeral was really touching. My condolences and sympathy go out to my friend and his family during this difficult time. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. It's sad that she is no longer with us, but judging by the lives she changed, I know her spirit will live on.
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